We Really Have No Clue
Seriously, ladies, unless you've read this book, you have absolutely no clue as to how the male mind is wired. I know that is a pretty bold statement on my part, yet that is how strongly I feel about “Wild at Heart”, Doug asked me if I would read it (come to find out, he's read it 4 times!) and I really had no idea what I was in for.
If you have read this book (male or female), you know exactly what I'm talking about. If you haven't read it yet, and are married, have sons, are considering getting married, get a copy today, from your local library if need be.
There were more "aha!" and "Oh! so that's why….." moments that went off for me in the last week than there have been in the last 30 years.
I honestly wish this book were around when I was raising my sons. It would have explained so much that I would have understood a lot better.
So, What's the Book About?
While I can't use just one sentence or paragraph to describe the entire book, in a nutshell, it's an inside look and journey as to the spirit of man, his soul, how he's wired and how modern society, including how today's church, has squelched his adventure. Although that one sentence summary doesn't do it justice.
"Life is not a problem to be solved… it's an adventure to be lived."
That pretty much sums it up. While the book was actually written for men, it is definitely a must-read for women to truly understand and get at the heart of men.
It's not a why men 'beat at their chest' kind of book. Yea, I know, there are lots of other books written about the differences between men and women, such as "Venus & Mars" "He Said, She Said", etc. In my personal opinion, those are purely for entertainment, while “Wild at Heart” is written from the soul to the soul.
Get a copy and read it. You'll be thankful you did!
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Hi Patty…
Thanks for posting this! I saw this posted on facebook and had to come by to comment. I love the book. There’s a lot of good stuff in it. I highly recommend it. I have a word of caution though… not all guys are built the same way. Some of this book resonated with me, but not all of it.
I’m guessing you’re a Christian so I hope this makes sense. Think of Esau and Jacob from the bible. Esau was a hunter, Jacob was more spiritual. They were twins and both obviously were men. Not all men are like Esau (hunters). While I love the book, (I’ve read it twice, and gave it to friends)the thing I found frustrating was that it assumes we’re all Esaus. Some of us are more like Jacob.
I’m probably telling you more than you would ever want to know… especially since this is my first comment on your blog…lol. But.. I find the same thing true with Men’s Ministry in general.
I’m a guy… I like guy things. But, I am more comfortable sitting around talking, than out in the woods hunting. Most of Men’s ministry is focused on riding Harley’s, going golfing, playing sports, camping etc… I don’t think I’ve heard of a cooking class (Remember Jacob?) at a Men’s ministry. Yet this is something I would enjoy.
Anyway… just my thoughts. Thanks for posting this. As you can tell this is a subject I’m somewhat passionate about.
All the best!
John
Hi John,
Thanks so much for stopping by! I truly appreciate it. Yes, I am a Christian, so your comparison of Esau and Jacob definitely makes sense.
My husband says, “Everybody has an adventure that makes their heart sing and that God wants us to find that adventure and passion to glorify Him, whatever that may be.”
I totally agree. For some, it may be out in the woods, for others it may be a cooking class. My husband loves to cook and had explored culinary school at one point.
Yet, he is continually drawn to the outdoors of Colorado (and we live in Wisconsin!)
I knew when I wrote my post that there was no way I was going to give the book justice and be able to explain it in such a way that encompasses the whole book, so I absolutely appreciate your comments.
All the best to you, too!
Patty
Hi Patty (& Doug)
Thanks for the resource! Sounds like it’s definitely a good read with several good ‘aha moments’
Continued blessings to you both!
Thanks so much, Regina!
Hi Patty (& Doug)
Thanks for the resource! Sounds like it’s definitely a good read with several good ‘aha moments’
Continued blessings to you both!
You’re very welcome, Abby! I’m glad you found it helpful and thanks so much for stopping by.